Divorce can be a tricky subject to talk about since it can be an emotional moment. Before talking about the divorce, as the child how they feel about what is going on and respond depending on what they say. For the children who do not know how to react, you can offer your support and let them know you are there to help them. For the child that does not care or is happy with the divorce, go with it; if they are not sad then there is no need to point things out to make them feel upset.
Are you comfortable talking about it?
You are not alone in this. I’m here for you
You may not believe it now, but the way you’re feeling will change
I may not be able to understand exactly how you feel, but I care about you and want to help
I’m sad to hear you’re hurting
Have you told your doctor how you are feeling?
Do you need someone to talk with?
Your life makes a difference to me
You aren't weak or defective
This isn't an ending. You can beat this
I know you probably don’t feel like it right now but let’s go for a walk
Depression is a real thing
There’s nothing you can say to me that will send me away from you