When everything is going wrong, you may have no idea how to react, much less say. First, you want to try and calm yourself down with words that can help you focus or prevent you from spiraling out of control. Once you are calm, talk to yourself about what exactly is happening to see if you can figure out what can be changed or done to help you. If you need to, you can let out exclamations to vent out any frustration, which is another method to help calm and focus the mind on finding much needed solutions.
Everything is temporary, even this
Happiness is a result of your approach to life, not what happens to you
There're things that are going right in your life
There're people who are in your corner
You ultimately choose how to react
Don't forget your resilience in other tough situations
Bad times don't define you, but your approach does
Worrying, anger, complaining, denial or any of the infinite other ways we try to circumvent pain when things go wrong won't change the situation
Don't panic or get too far ahead of yourself
Focus on what is actually happening now and what is actually in your power to do now
Focus on realistic expectations for yourself and the situation
Differentiate what you can and what you cannot change
Take one step, then another. Even if they're just baby steps, keep moving
Rather than focusing on the worst case, think instead of what else is possible
Keep a positive attitude by remaining focused on solutions, skills, and strengths
You should spend time with the people who support you
Appreciate the things going well, savor simple pleasures, and try to find the hidden gifts in the difficult times
Treat yourself with love and respect
Rejuvenate rather than simply tuning out or unplugging
Ask for help sooner rather than later
Take the steps you need to keep working toward what you want in life